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Be Delusional – Being Realistic Can Lead to a Life of Mediocrity

Think about it… you have a dream… a perfect life… you think for a moment that you can have it.  You start taking the steps to get there, and WAMO, a fear pops up.  You take a step back, and think “I can’t do it”, or worse, you never begin.  Change is not going to happen overnight, and life will put obstacles in our way, and when that happens you need to deal with it, and then get back on the path of the the life that you want.  Otherwise, you may be left with a mediocre life, that’s passionless and without purpose.

Become delusional to the fear, and have a great time with your life. It’s important to do what we love, because the road to being the best we can be requires work, and if we are passionate about it, we will want to work at it, and if we work at it, we will do well. At the very least we will be happy on a daily bases, and that’s how we can all make a difference in our world.  When we are happy with what we are doing, everything overflows into more joy and happiness in our life; and in the lives of those we touch.

Just a thought…

Love, Goldi

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Want to Change Your Life – Be Ready!

When you want your life to change and you take the time to form the ideas, thoughts, and pictures of what you want – take hold; be ready for your life to change!  Life truly forms into what you’re thinking and believing will happen; Be careful… Be Clear!

My life started changing so fast that I almost didn’t recognize the good that was before me. I started feeling uncomfortable, and a little irritated.  What’s going on? I wondered.  Is this a sign that something isn’t right?  Where is this perfect life that I dreamed of?  It wasn’t until I sat still for a moment, that I realized, that I had 90% of what I had dreamed. The uncomfortable feeling was from the change itself, and from the fact, that my life wasn’t in the same package as I had pictured.  I realized that what I had craved in creating my “just right” life, was more about feelings.  Feelings of peace, and love, and of being adored; And –  I have that.  I wanted to write, and I have the time and ability to write.  I wanted a new life, and since I’ve transplanted myself 700 miles away, to South Florida, I can also definitely say – I have that. This change however usually comes with the cost of losing something else, and at first can feel a little uncomfortable, but its a necessary part of getting what you want.

More simply, yesterday after weeks of desiring a new phone, I accidentally spilled a drink on mine, rendering it useless. I now have what I wanted, a phone which will help me with my GoldilocksBlog, Twitter, Facebook, and other social networking sites, and ultimately to having more of the life I’m creating.  I felt uncomfortable. I didn’t want to spend the money on the replacement, and felt guilty for doing so. Life left me no choice.

A friend of a friend wanted to move back to her home in Kentucky. She was laid off at her current location, but transfered to Kentucky. Now her and her husband live in different locations…

Acknowledge the existence of what you asked for with gratitude – recognize the good, and keep creating your “just right” life; give yourself time, and allow the divine universe bring you the rest.

Just a thought…

Love, Goldi

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“If we had all the answers, then we wouldn’t need to write our own story.” Mike

Life brings changes… some good, some bad, some totally unexpected.  A year ago my plans of what my life would be like right now, are so much different than the reality of what is.  Many of us are going through major transitions right now; children starting school, children going off to college, becoming an empty nester, divorce, marriage, job loss, foreclosures, bankruptcy, etc.  Some of us may be going through two or three of these. Some of the changes are good and are a necessary progression in life, and even those transitions can feel challenging at times. The trick as “my man” Mike reminds me, is that we have to continue to write our own story.  To face the challenges, and to create our own positive spin.  Every dark cloud, every obstacle, every transition, can be turned into something better than you could ever of imagined.  As the challenges and transitions have come, so does the good.  Focus on what opportunities you now have during this an every transition that comes your way. Remember to keep adapting, rewriting your story as you go,  keeping the focus on your “just right” life, the life that is perfect for you.

Just a thought…

Love, Goldi

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