When you’re young you blame your bad circumstances on others; As you get older you tend to lay the blame on yourself. If you’ve had time for deep introspection, you’ve realize that the blame, can’t be placed with others or on yourself.
Our lives are the result of a complex mix of past events. Events that we may or may not have had any control over. We have the knowledge of what we’ve been through, but have no knowledge of the total history, of everyone we’ve meet. So how could we possibly know, the motivation behind any act, or interpret the act as being anything other than just an event. Don’t take anything personally – Let it go…
Live your life measured by what you can control, and as if things, people, and essentially everything that happens, was meant to be. When focusing on what you desire, relax, confidently knowing that it’s coming to you. Don’t stretch your arms forward in order to grab a little edge of your dream, hoping to pull it towards you. Don’t bend backwards to what you have let slip by. But, stay happy, peaceful, in the moment that your in. Wait until it comes your way, then take hold of what is yours.
Hoping that you’re truly living everyday of your life.
Dare to believe that you can have the life that you want. Dare to believe that anything is possible. Dare to believe that people are pulling for you. Dare to believe that you can achieve your dreams.
Your life may not be what you expected, but I’m here to tell you that just as you didn’t expect the life you have now, you may not be expecting how great your life will become. So don’t give up! Don’t settle! Keep going – further and further if you have too!
Today I’m celebrating my first Valentine in ten years. I’m in the mushy gushy stage that makes this day so great! However, after spending so many Valentines days alone, I’m acutely aware of what it feels like to be alone. I’m sure you may know someone like this; the single mom or dad, your coworker that just moved into town, a neighbor, a friend, or may be yourself.
What if on this Valentine’s Day we took the time to show our love, to everyone that we came into contact with today. If your alone, buy yourself some flowers, chocolate, and something good for dinner tonight, and while your at the store buy something for someone that you know is alone or is going through a difficult time. If your in a relationship, do the same thing. While buying your love a gift pick up a card, a rose, or something to share with another. Imagine what the world would look like if we all shared this love…
We are all dependent on one another, every soul of us on earth. George Bernard Shaw
Take care of yourself, take care of others – let’s spread the Love we have to share,… It’s Easy!