Scattered thoughts… Indecision

Indecision may or may not be my problem.  Jimmy Buffett

Indecision – stops you.  You can get to where you want to go, but only if you know where your going.  Vacillating back and forth, wavering,…thinking, thinking, thinking, is not going to take you anywhere.  You must take action!

If you read my last post, you will remember that there are a number of moves, that can get you where you want to go.  So don’t put so much weight on the perfect thought out plan, most likely, things are going to change throughout your journey.  What you need to remember is where you want to go, and keep making your decisions from that basis.  Is this choice going to lead me where I want to go. If the answer is yes, then head in that direction, if the answer is no, unless your changing your goal or dream – don’t follow that path.  Do make a plan, just don’t delay taking action because every step is not guaranteed.

Guarantee’s, sometimes, keep us from taking that first step, or following through with the next move.  We sometimes feel if we had a guarantee that our dream will work, and a definite step by step plan to follow, then we would proceed; but because our dreams don’t have guarantees, sometimes we fail to make our move.  Our only guarantee is this moment right now, so the question becomes, how do you want to live your life now?

Just a thought…

Love, Goldi – Twitter – Facebook

Self Mastery of Mind

Henley – Invictus

Out of the night that covers me,

Black as the pit from pole to pole,
I thank whatever gods may be
For my unconquerable soul.

In the fell clutch of circumstance
I have not winced nor cried aloud.
Under the bludgeonings of chance
My head is bloody, but unbowed.

Beyond this place of wrath and tears
Looms but the Horror of the shade,
And yet the menace of the years
Finds and shall find me unafraid.

It matters not how strait the gate,
How charged with punishments the scroll,
I am the master of my fate:
I am the captain of my soul.

Your mind creates the world you live in. Accept people and situations for what they are – just people, and just situations, that are coming from many other actions and reactions.  Step out of the drama. Control your emotions. Control your thoughts. Control your mind. You don’t have to react to aggression with aggression.   You don’t have to mirror or agree with the thoughts coming at you. You don’t have to agree with the opinion of others. You can accomplish what you want to achieve. You must stay stead fast in your own mind with the purpose of the life you want. Look toward that ultimate life. Remember what you want; a life of true happiness (add your own details here) . Purposely direct or change your thoughts and actions. Choose how to respond; react… and live with honor, and the purpose of becoming the better you.

May you always find yourself unafraid, mastering your fate, and captaining your soul.

Just a thought…

Love, Goldi – Twitter – Facebook

Want to Change Your Life – Be Ready!

When you want your life to change and you take the time to form the ideas, thoughts, and pictures of what you want – take hold; be ready for your life to change!  Life truly forms into what you’re thinking and believing will happen; Be careful… Be Clear!

My life started changing so fast that I almost didn’t recognize the good that was before me. I started feeling uncomfortable, and a little irritated.  What’s going on? I wondered.  Is this a sign that something isn’t right?  Where is this perfect life that I dreamed of?  It wasn’t until I sat still for a moment, that I realized, that I had 90% of what I had dreamed. The uncomfortable feeling was from the change itself, and from the fact, that my life wasn’t in the same package as I had pictured.  I realized that what I had craved in creating my “just right” life, was more about feelings.  Feelings of peace, and love, and of being adored; And –  I have that.  I wanted to write, and I have the time and ability to write.  I wanted a new life, and since I’ve transplanted myself 700 miles away, to South Florida, I can also definitely say – I have that. This change however usually comes with the cost of losing something else, and at first can feel a little uncomfortable, but its a necessary part of getting what you want.

More simply, yesterday after weeks of desiring a new phone, I accidentally spilled a drink on mine, rendering it useless. I now have what I wanted, a phone which will help me with my GoldilocksBlog, Twitter, Facebook, and other social networking sites, and ultimately to having more of the life I’m creating.  I felt uncomfortable. I didn’t want to spend the money on the replacement, and felt guilty for doing so. Life left me no choice.

A friend of a friend wanted to move back to her home in Kentucky. She was laid off at her current location, but transfered to Kentucky. Now her and her husband live in different locations…

Acknowledge the existence of what you asked for with gratitude – recognize the good, and keep creating your “just right” life; give yourself time, and allow the divine universe bring you the rest.

Just a thought…

Love, Goldi – Twitter – Facebook