Category: Love

GoldiLocks explores the meaning of love and all her heart’s experiences in an effort to find a love that’s not too big and not too small… but one that’s just right.

Goldilocks Call For Action

Looking for the Good!  Seeing the Good!  Watching for the Good!

We are all the same, and yet different.  We are all beautiful and yet ugly.  We are all good and yet bad.  When we turn on the news however 99% of what is reported is of caution, is horrific in nature, and is of ugliness in the world.  So I need your help! I want to see and hear about the good, and the beauty of people in our world around us.  I want to focus on that!  Send me stories! Send me photos! If you know of someone who inspires you, who is doing good deeds, or if you see anything or know of anything in the world that is positive please let me know in an email or as a comment.  It can be as small as today I saw the man in front of me pay for a lunch of someone in need, or I saw the most beautiful flower, or of larger things like a country like Bhutan with their Gross National Happiness, or of someone who is capable of moving mountains with good deeds, like Oprah, but who I have just not yet talked (blogged) about.

Lets Talk about it!  Lets See it!  Lets do it!  Lets focus on the positive and work from the place, the assumption, and the perspective that we are all good, beautiful, and are perfectly imperfect now! Just as we are! If we look, we will see it!  If we see it, it will grow!

Just a thought!

Love,

Goldi

Goldilocks Blog

Searching for the perfect life in a perfect world…

Making a Difference

I ended my blog the other day with my usual tag of Love, Goldi – Searching for the perfect life in a perfect world…but then I added something that has been on my mind for a while. “Remember that to make a difference in the world we need to begin with ourselves. The choices that we make influences everyone around us, and to change any part, changes the whole.” Whatever we do, say, or feel has a rippling effect…if someone walks into the room with a really positive happy outlook, and is boiling over with enthusiasm.  You feel it! It makes you start feeling more optimistic, and then it makes who you are around feel a little better, and so on, and so on.  Think about it…if everyone just genuinely smiled, even if the thoughts and feelings of gratitude came from the place of Thank God that I have the ability to smile, the world would be a better place. The same weight is placed on our actions and the choice we make.  Have you ever noticed if one person moves into a neighborhood and straightens the house and yard up, that it makes everyone else want to do the same. It makes everyone want to be better.   So I think our job is the same whether we choose to be Doctors, Housewives, or Automotive Mechanics, we are to be happy with what we choose to do, and we are to do it the best that we can.  If we are not, then we need to find what brings us joy.  Do not compare yourself with others, just do what feels right for you.  Take care of yourself physically and mentally, so that others feel the joy.  Choose what is best for you, and you will help make the world a better place!

Just a thought!

Love, Goldi

Searching for a perfect life in a perfect world…smile!

The Answer to all of Life’s Questions-The Bear in the Room!

Are we so focused on what we want, or what we think is happening that we miss the big picture? Is it really that easy to see it when we look for it?  When others are caught up in a drama it is easy to see what they are missing. You just want to yank them and shake them until they wake up, but it is hard to do it with ourselves.   In the past I have been just as guilty, not seeing my own drama, or patterns, or whatever else has been holding me back. Years have gone by and I did not notice the bear, until he began to jump up and down right in front of me. Positioning himself just so…to where I could not look around him anymore…wanting me to see him, and it is then and only then that I did.

So it made me realize that this is the answer to all of life’s questions!  That the answer is right here if we just see it.  So let us stop what we are doing right now!  Breathe…Relax…Slow down our minds… Start zooming out on life.  Get a little distance from it.  What are we missing? In business? In love? With our family?  With our friends?  Start to watch your life as you would be watching a show!   What would you do differently?  What needs to be done?  What changes would you make?  You know the answers…if you don’t, keep zooming out.  Give yourself some distance until you can see the whole picture.  If it helps, look at your life as if you were looking at someone else’s…what would you see?  What would you say to them? What would you change?  The answer is right in front of you!  Look for what is obvious!  See the bear!

Just a thought…

Love, Goldi

GoldilocksBlog.com

Searching for the Perfect Life in a Perfect World… Remember that to make a difference in the world we need to begin with ourselves.  The choices that we make influences everyone around us, and to change in any part, changes the whole.