Mood – Very Good

The thing with pretending your in a good mood is that sometimes you can. – Charles de Lint

Generally these days, I’m in a very good mood. Life has been very kind to me of late, but years ago it started with me pretending to be in a good mood first.

On a daily basis we all have the opportunity to choose how we react. With our words an actions, we can escalate or de-escalate problems, make someone feel joy or sorrow, or  we can inspire versus humiliate. We actually do choose.

Our choice to feel happy, and act with our good mood, is love. And, by allowing your good mood to be so, it begins to change form. We begin to change, and we begin to feel better, and the love we share – comes back to us.

Just a thought…

Love, Goldi



Take Rest

I was talking to a friend of mine the other day and I told her how for the last two years,  I’ve kind of sequestered myself, voiding relationships and friends, until I could discover who I was without outside influences.  She laughed and said, “You know thats what they do with people when they’re committed. They put them in a place where they can be by themselves for a few weeks. They are not allowed to see any family or friends, not knowing where the problem is coming from.”  I laughed to myself thinking that I was relating to someone that was committed, and having felt a little insane in the last few months, was not all that comforting of a thought.

My feeling of insanity however is only coming because I’m doing things differently, that I have done before.  I am in fact, insanely happy, so at the moment, I don’t care.  My life has been spent doing all the things  “I should do” vs doing the things I wanted to do.  I still have obligations so I’m still not doing everything that I want to do, but I think that’s  a good thing.  As in all things no extreme is good; a totally hedonistic life vs one of servitude, “Goldilocks way” will prevail.  I’m not taking the safest way, but  I’m taking the path that brings me joy.  I’m writing, blogging, and taking care of myself with more rest and relaxation, exercise, healthy food choices, and choosing the friends I want to spend time with.  Friends and family who inspire.  I have no real income, and thats the scary part, and why I feel a little insane.  I’ve been an entrepreneur for the last fifteen years so I’m familiar with taking risk, but in the risk I took before, I saw a definite way to earn money.  In fact, that is why I chose to pursue those ventures; I was miserable, and I felt that life needed to go.

Life truly is too short to spend being miserable.  So I’m smiling, I’m breathing, and I’m going more slowly, all the while realizing how much time I’ve wasted and not wasting another minute.  I remind myself of a quote:

“Take rest, a field that is rested gives a bountiful crop.” Ovid

I’m giving myself time to do what I need to do for me, and I just know, the bountiful crop will come.

Just a thought…

Love, Goldi

Creating a perfect life in a perfect world…

New Year-New Life!

Today is the first day of the greatest year ever!  Decide today what your perfect life looks like. Keep this image in mind all year long, and allow yourself to make the journey!

This may require some courage, which is not the absence of fear, but the ability to go past the fear.  Feel the feeling of “increase and abundance” in whatever you do, each and every day-all year long, in the smallest and the largest of tasks. Always keeping in mind of what your perfect life looks like.

My mantra this year for my perfect life; Feeling a huge Increase in love, health, wealth, travel, and creative writing. Inspiring others towards their happy and perfect lives!

Living Large and Thinking Big!

With Love and Gratitude to you and this New Year!


Having a perfect life in a perfect world!

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