Month: March 2010

Perfection

I always look back at my last blog before I write my next, and sometimes like today, I went through several.  Rereading yesterdays blog made me cringe a little because it sounded so cheesy, even though I do want to remind us to take some sort of action, even if it is small, so that we eventually get to where we want to go.

Which brings me to todays point.  We may never reach that ultimate level of perfection in anything that we do. If we wait until we know that we will be perfect, before taking action, then we may never try anything.  So go sound cheesy!  Do something sloppily, but do it!  Whatever “it” is for you!  Just make that first move.

Just a thought!

Love, Goldi

www.GoldilocksBlog.com

Having the perfect life in a perfect world…

Take Action

Wouldn’t it be great if we could just push a button and have every thing that we want. Weight loss – push here!  A fabulous lover – push here!  A new job – push here!  In some cases, pushing a button may work, if it’s an action such as, hitting the send button on an email that contains your resume for your dream job.  Achieving your goals takes action.

So what action are you going take today, that will get you closer towards making your dreams come true?

Just a thought…

Love, Goldi

www.GoldilocksBlog.com

Having the perfect life in a perfect world…

Self Care – Being Selfish – Helping Others

I had a conversation the other day with three generations of women.  Kara who is twenty, said she was worried about her mother who was stressing about her grandmother and grandfather.  The grandfather is an alcoholic and in his old age has become an angry drunk.  The grandmother is the good southern wife staying with her man, through the good and bad.  She is scared though, and  the daughter, her husband and three children are also scared for her. As are her two sisters and their families.  So much time an energy is spent on this…

We all have obligations in the role that we are in as spouse, child, parent, friend, etc. Being “the good person” we support our family member in need. The support from abuse of drugs and alcohol, fiscal responsibilities, and poor health. The choices of one individual affect so many, as in this case – about 12. However, some of the time our help doesn’t help, and we end up hurting ourselves.

So if you still presume to think that taking care of  yourself is a selfish thought,  you can look at it as helping your family,  so that they won’t have to take care of you.

Just a thought…

Love, Goldi

www.GoldilocksBlog.com

Having a perfect life in a perfect world…