Your living is determined not so much by what life brings to you as by the attitude you bring to life; not so much by what happens to you as by the way your mind looks at what happens.

–John Homer Miller

The way your mind looks at what happens, Ahhhhh Perception…,Why is it that we tend to pluck information that we wish to have, and happily ignore flagrantly obvious facts that threaten one our beliefs. Beliefs, which seem to conveniently sustains us in our current reality?  Are we blindly missing what we most need to see?  Isn’t the ultimate goal to truly be happy.  Would our perception shift if we were truly going after something that we were concerned about and really wanted to accomplish, versus doing something that we perceive to bring us acceptance and value? And/or accepting what life has brought us, and believing that it will lead us to something far better.

Just a thought…

Love, Goldi

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Having a perfect life in a perfect world…


I remind myself that I am in charge of my attitude, and I finally realize the impact of attitude on my life.  I have always believed the expression whether you think you can or you can’t you are right, and noticed in others the self defeating attitude that many have.  In fact, it is one of my pet peeves, hearing people complain about something without doing anything about it, and I must admit, that I have been guilty of that myself.

Attitude is more important than the facts.  It is more important that than what has happened in our past.  What we have succeeded or failed in.  What amount of education that we have. The amount of money in our bank account.  It is even more important than our gifts and skills.

If we focus on what is good in our lives, what is joyful, what is possible, and what it is that we want…if we believe, we will take the steps to get where we want to go, and have our perfect life now.

Just a thought!

Love, Goldi

Having the perfect life in a perfect world…