Some people never ask for help and some people ask all the time. Do you find yourself not asking for help, ever, but always giving help when asked.  It would be great if we all could be self sufficient, but I don’t think we’re made that way. We all have unique talents and abilities that not all people have. These are the gifts that we’re supposed to use. Then when necessary we should seek out others when help is needed or wanted. For some of us thats very hard to do. But, if you think of it on a broader scale, even us self sufficient types do seek help sometimes. I mean, thank God that I didn’t have to design this computer program I’m using for my blog, or fix my own car. I guess it could be rationalized that I self sufficiently paid for it. But if your brought to your knees, without money or stranded on the side of the road, at some point even you may be forced to ask. Please don’t wait for that to happen, before you ask for help.

Going with the flow of the universe – if you give, you need to receive, or you’ll end up with nothing left to give.  Give freely with all your heart but receive with gratitude and an open heart as well.  Ask for what you need. Wether it’s for friendship, companionship, a ride to work, notes to a class, a recommendation, a picture that needs to be hung, or whatever – big or small – ask.

Be self assured that help will come your way. I think that may be the biggest problems for those of us that do it all – that deep inside we think, help may not come. But, you just need to keep asking, until somebody says yes to the help you need. Don’t take it personally.  Have faith that the universe is working in your favor, something better is out there for you, someone or something that will enhance your life, so if it doesn’t work out right away – keep asking. Who knows what the universe will bring your way, but just for asking, something will come.


Just a thought…

Love, Goldi


Lost-Where do I go from here?

From Alice in Wonderland:
Alice: Would you tell me, please, which way I ought to go from here?
The Cat: That depends a good deal on where you want to get to
Alice: I don’t much care where.
The Cat: Then it doesn’t much matter which way you go.
Alice: …so long as I get somewhere.
The Cat: Oh, you’re sure to do that, if only you walk long enough.

Lost, and undecided on which direction to continue in.  You want to run, and just get away from where you are, but at the same time you know when you arrive, you want it to be at a place that’s better. It’s enough to drive you crazy. You’ve work yourself up, your head is spinning, and you wish someone would just give you the answer already and tell you which way to go. Nevertheless, until you decide, like The Cat said, “Then it doesn’t much matter which way you go.”   You can ask for help,…you just need to know where you want to get to first.

It’s your life – decide!

Just a thought…

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