Changing your Life-Faith

My mother told me that my father had wanted to be a sports writer, which I believe he would have been really good at.  He was enrolled at a University and told this to his journalism professor.  The professor thinking it or he was unworthy discourage him, and my father took what he said to heart, and promptly withdrew not only from the class but from school.  He believed that if he could not do what he wanted to do, why continue.

So how do we know if people are giving us true criticism or advise (like some people need on American Idol) versus a naysayer, someone who just wants to kill our dreams for whatever reason.  Is it because they could not do it, or because they don’t think it can be done…and do we listen to them for the same reasons? Regardless of why, I believe that it only matters what we believe.  We have to take our own inventory.  If we can’t carry a tune, then no, we are not going to be professional singers.  We also need to take note that people with an extraordinary talent to sing, do not make it to the professional level, and sometimes people with less talent or someone who does not fit the perfect mold of being a star, succeed.  Have you ever noticed that the people that do make it seem a little different.   It is as if the song, the music, the voice, or talent is coming from a different place.  It’s as if it’s coming from their soul and who they are.  They radiate an authentic self and you feel it, and that is what makes them special.

Think of Susan Boyle…,I do not believe that she was thinking of fame or fortune when she stepped onto the stage.  She had a dream and just did what she had to do.  What she had been practicing to do for years.  Her song came from deep within and seem to pour out of her heart, soul, and every pour in her body. It affected billions, and shocked all that had predetermined that she had no talent.  That is the difference!  That is what you need to know!  What is it that you feel like you have to do?  What is in your heart and soul?  Then start taking the steps to get there-have faith!

Just a thought!

Love, Goldi

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Blue Moon – New Years Eve!

A Blue Moon on New Years Eve how auspicious! What a great way to end the year, and a great time to reflect and recharge our spiritual batteries!

Answer this question…What will my perfect year look like? Give yourself permission to have or do anything that you want. Let your self believe that anything is possible! Keep asking yourself this question until you have a clear picture in mind and are able to visualize everything that you want. When the ball drops at Times Square on New Years Eve imagine that is your magic wand giving you everything that you desire. Believe that it is coming to you, and this year will be a great year!

Next- New Years Eve Blue Moon-2028! Remember, it only happens once in a Blue Moon! So celebrate, enjoy! Cheers to a Fabulous New Year!

Love, Goldi


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BELIEVE – Melanie Oudin

BELIEVE is the word that 17 year old Melanie Oudin has stamped on the side of her tennis shoe.  Melanie is at the US Open in NY, believing, and now living her dream!  Is it that simple? Believing in what you want?  I think the answer is yes!  It is that simple!  We must believe that we can succeed!  We must have faith!  If not we have already failed, and if at times we have doubts or we have temporary setbacks, it is never too late to renew our faith and belief.  We can thank Melanie for that reminder as well. She keeps having to come back from behind…is it that she temporarily forgets?  Then remembers (believes) that she can do it, and then she does…she wins! I am not sure what is exactly going through Melanie’s mind at that moment, but I am sure that she believes… and I think you should too!

Just a thought!

Love, Goldi

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