Category: Life

GoldiLocks explores the meaning of life and all her life experiences in an effort to achieve a life that’s not too big and not too small… but one that’s just right.

Dare to Dream

If you have built castles in the air, your work need not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundations under them. Henry David Thoreau
Dare to Dream to have your perfect life – Nothing is really as hard as it looks.  It may however take more time than you thought, but that is okay.  Just know where you want to go, and keep taking steps (no matter how small) and eventually you will get there.
Just a thought…
Love, Goldi

Having the perfect life in a perfect world…


Lessons of the Journey

In every attempt of love, and success at any endeavor, we learn.  We become closer to what it is that we want.  Always remind yourself that this attempt has brought you closer to your goal.  Weeding out what not to do.  Always consider your attempts a success for this very reason.  Never give up on your dream.  Readjust, reevaluate, leave yourself open, and try again.

Not trying, may feel like we are protecting ourselves, and by protecting ourselves we may feel like we have won that battle.  The truth is however, that we end up losing the war  – of never having a totally fulfilling life.

So remember – what may seem like a failure, is really a stepping stone, bringing you closer to your perfect life.

Just a thought…

Love, Goldi

www.GoldilocksBlog.com

Having the perfect life in a perfect world…

Is Happiness – Freedom?

When I think the thoughts of what will make me happy; in a partner, in life, in a job, or in the simplest of things – such as – what do I want to eat, I always come back with – I want freedom to choose.  Freedom to choose to be, to do, to have or to want – anything.  Freedom to be myself.  Not the me that my mother wants me to be, or my father, my children, my neighbor, or my boss.

The more freedom, or at very least, perceived freedom that I have, the happier I perceive myself to be. I am not saying that I need to be totally hedonistic about my life.  I do a lot of self sacrificing for the benefit of others, but it is my freedom and choice to do it.   So in having a perfect life, job or mate, should the number one question be – How much freedom will I have?  Do I get to set my own hours?  Will my opinions or suggestions be heard and considered?  Will I be able to pursue my dream and be supported for it?  Do you have organic food?

Just a thought…

Love, Goldi

www.GoldilocksBlog.com

Having a perfect life in a perfect world…