In every attempt of love, and success at any endeavor, we learn. We become closer to what it is that we want. Always remind yourself that this attempt has brought you closer to your goal. Weeding out what not to do. Always consider your attempts a success for this very reason. Never give up on your dream. Readjust, reevaluate, leave yourself open, and try again.
Not trying, may feel like we are protecting ourselves, and by protecting ourselves we may feel like we have won that battle. The truth is however, that we end up losing the war – of never having a totally fulfilling life.
So remember – what may seem like a failure, is really a stepping stone, bringing you closer to your perfect life.