Month: February 2011

Living A Fulfilling Life

How do we live a fulfilling life? Is it in the acquiring of certain possessions; Is it in the attainment of a certain title; or is it in accomplishment of a certain feat. How do you decide, and what path will you take.

Everyone has a sense of what will fulfill them, and it’s this innate sense that I think we should follow. We are all unique, so it only makes sense that are passions are too.  It’s this purpose that cannot be replaced by anybody other than you.

We sometimes however think that wealth, or a possession, or a person will bring us fulfillment.  When the reality is the fulfillment can only come from within.  It’s a place of peace, of doing what are hearts are calling us to do. It’s not about the amount of money we have, or that we have the title of best golfer in the world.  No, it’s about being a golfer, or being a money manager, or whatever it is that you long to do. It’s about being happy in the doing. It’s about being – you!

 

Just a thought…

 

Love, Goldi

 

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Live Your Life-No Judgements

When you’re young you blame your bad circumstances on others;  As you get older you tend to lay the blame on yourself.  If you’ve had time for deep introspection, you’ve realize that the blame, can’t be placed with others or on yourself.

Our lives are the result of a complex mix of past events.  Events that we may or may not have had any control over.  We have the knowledge of what we’ve been through, but have no knowledge of the total history, of everyone we’ve meet. So how could we possibly know, the motivation behind any act, or interpret the act as being anything other than just an event. Don’t take anything personally – Let it go…

Live your life measured by what you can control, and as if things, people, and essentially everything that happens, was meant to be. When focusing on what you desire, relax, confidently knowing that it’s coming to you. Don’t stretch your arms forward in order to grab a little edge of your dream, hoping to pull it towards you. Don’t bend backwards to what you have let slip by.  But, stay happy, peaceful, in the moment that your in. Wait until it comes your way, then take hold of what is yours.

Hoping that you’re truly living everyday of your life.

Love, Goldi

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Change My Life – Now

Nature does not hurry, yet everything is accomplished. Lao Tzu

I guess it’s natural for us all to want instant gratification.  I mean who wants to wait for something that they desire.  Who says: gee, I wish in two years and five months that I’ll get that job promotion.  No, we say, I want it now!   Rarely is something that is gained quickly, valued for an extended amount of time. What we seem to treasure most is what we sacrificed, toiled, and worked so hard for.  The problem is that life shouldn’t be about sacrifice, but of joy.  So wouldn’t it be better, if in life, that we didn’t look for the quick fix, or endure any pain or sacrifice, but to learn to trust in the effort that we are making, …that it will all work out.

Just a thought…

Love, Goldi

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