Goldilocks » Twitter http://goldilocksblog.com Living Life - Just Right Mon, 06 Feb 2012 22:57:43 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 Live Your Life-No Judgements http://goldilocksblog.com/2011/02/live-your-life-no-judgements/ http://goldilocksblog.com/2011/02/live-your-life-no-judgements/#comments Fri, 25 Feb 2011 21:28:09 +0000 Goldilocks http://goldilocksblog.com/?p=816 When you’re young you blame your bad circumstances on others;  As you get older you tend to lay the blame on yourself.  If you’ve had time for deep introspection, you’ve realize that the blame, can’t be placed with others or on yourself.

Our lives are the result of a complex mix of past events.  Events that [...]]]> When you’re young you blame your bad circumstances on others;  As you get older you tend to lay the blame on yourself.  If you’ve had time for deep introspection, you’ve realize that the blame, can’t be placed with others or on yourself.

Our lives are the result of a complex mix of past events.  Events that we may or may not have had any control over.  We have the knowledge of what we’ve been through, but have no knowledge of the total history, of everyone we’ve meet. So how could we possibly know, the motivation behind any act, or interpret the act as being anything other than just an event. Don’t take anything personally – Let it go…

Live your life measured by what you can control, and as if things, people, and essentially everything that happens, was meant to be. When focusing on what you desire, relax, confidently knowing that it’s coming to you. Don’t stretch your arms forward in order to grab a little edge of your dream, hoping to pull it towards you. Don’t bend backwards to what you have let slip by.  But, stay happy, peaceful, in the moment that your in. Wait until it comes your way, then take hold of what is yours.

Hoping that you’re truly living everyday of your life.

Love, Goldi

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Your life may not be what you expected, but I’m here to tell you that just as you [...]]]> Dare to believe that you can have the life that you want.  Dare to believe that anything is possible.  Dare to believe that people are pulling for you.  Dare to believe that you can achieve your dreams.

Your life may not be what you expected, but I’m here to tell you that just as you didn’t expect the life you have now, you may not be expecting how great your life will become. So don’t give up!  Don’t settle!  Keep going – further and further if you have too!

Dare to believe that your dream is true!

Just a thought…

Love, Goldi

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]]> http://goldilocksblog.com/2011/02/dare-to-believe-that-the-dream-is-true/feed/ 0 Valentine’s Day/Single Awareness Day – Spread Love! http://goldilocksblog.com/2011/02/valentines-daysingle-awareness-day-spread-love/ http://goldilocksblog.com/2011/02/valentines-daysingle-awareness-day-spread-love/#comments Mon, 14 Feb 2011 18:24:36 +0000 Goldilocks http://goldilocksblog.com/?p=805

Today I’m celebrating my first Valentine in ten years.  I’m in the mushy gushy stage that makes this day so great! However, after spending so many Valentines days alone, I’m acutely aware of what it feels like to be alone. I’m sure you may know someone like this; the single mom or dad, [...]]]>

Today I’m celebrating my first Valentine in ten years.  I’m in the mushy gushy stage that makes this day so great! However, after spending so many Valentines days alone, I’m acutely aware of what it feels like to be alone. I’m sure you may know someone like this; the single mom or dad, your coworker that just moved into town, a neighbor, a friend, or may be yourself.

What if on this Valentine’s Day we took the time to show our love, to everyone that we came into contact with today. If your alone, buy yourself some flowers, chocolate, and something good for dinner tonight, and while your at the store buy something for someone that you know is alone or is going through a difficult time. If your in a relationship, do the same thing. While buying your love a gift pick up a card, a rose, or something to share with another. Imagine what the world would look like if we all shared this love…

We are all dependent on one another, every soul of us on earth. George Bernard Shaw

Take care of yourself, take care of others – let’s spread the Love we have to share,… It’s Easy!

Just a thought!

Love, Goldi

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]]> http://goldilocksblog.com/2011/02/valentines-daysingle-awareness-day-spread-love/feed/ 2 Perfect Love http://goldilocksblog.com/2011/02/perfect-love/ http://goldilocksblog.com/2011/02/perfect-love/#comments Fri, 11 Feb 2011 19:35:17 +0000 Goldilocks http://goldilocksblog.com/?p=799 “Love is patient. Love is kind. It does not envy. It does not boast. It is not self–seeking. It is not easily angered. It keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices in truth. It always protects. Always trusts. Always hopes. Always perseveres. Love never fails.”

When we think of a [...]]]> “Love is patient. Love is kind. It does not envy. It does not boast. It is not self–seeking. It is not easily angered. It keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices in truth. It always protects. Always trusts. Always hopes. Always perseveres. Love never fails.”

When we think of a “Perfect Love”, we usually think of how we want someone to love us; how we want to be loved.  But, what about the way we love others, or even how we love ourselves.  Do we trust and protect our love ones.   Do we agonize over our past mistakes.  Can we forgive others. Can we forgive ourselves.

Shouldn’t we love others, at least, the way we love ourselves; and shouldn’t we love ourselves, at least, the way we love others.

Just a thought…

Love, Goldi

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]]> http://goldilocksblog.com/2011/02/perfect-love/feed/ 0 The Habit of a Winning Life http://goldilocksblog.com/2011/02/the-habit-of-a-winning-life/ http://goldilocksblog.com/2011/02/the-habit-of-a-winning-life/#comments Tue, 08 Feb 2011 22:26:01 +0000 Goldilocks http://goldilocksblog.com/?p=796 Winning is not a sometime thing; it’s an all time thing. You don’t win once in a while, you don’t do things right once in a while, you do them right all the time. Winning is habit. Unfortunately, so is losing. Vince Lombardi

In honor of the Super Bowl, I thought a Vince Lombardi quote was [...]]]> Winning is not a sometime thing; it’s an all time thing. You don’t win once in a while, you don’t do things right once in a while, you do them right all the time. Winning is habit. Unfortunately, so is losing. Vince Lombardi

In honor of the Super Bowl, I thought a Vince Lombardi quote was appropriate. :)   We all need to be winners in our own life; so I also thought, that a daily affirmation would help, in the “habit” of a winning life.

Say the following affirmation with belief, with faith, with a knowing, and a certainty, that what you say is true.

This is my day, my week, my year!  I carry myself in the way I speak, the way I dress, and the way I act; in celebration of what I have, and what I know is coming my way. I feel the joy of my winning life.

Now do what you have to do! And, believe in yourself; have faith, that you have, what you create. You are a winner!

Just a thought…

LOVE, GOLDI

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]]> http://goldilocksblog.com/2011/02/the-habit-of-a-winning-life/feed/ 1 Changing your Life-Let Go-Give in http://goldilocksblog.com/2011/01/changing-your-life-let-go-give-in/ http://goldilocksblog.com/2011/01/changing-your-life-let-go-give-in/#comments Mon, 31 Jan 2011 18:36:41 +0000 Goldilocks http://goldilocksblog.com/?p=793 Are you pushing, pulling, squeezing, stretching, and trying to manipulate a certain outcome, and while you’re waiting for this outcome, does time seem to stand still.  When fear pops in, do you stop trying to make things happen, and then watch, as time flies by.

Never stop trying, but “let go” – to whatever your trying to accomplish – give it time. Time to marinate, and season into the perfect form for you. Keep living the life that you want. Believe that everything will work out in your favor. Believe that you already have the life that you want, and let the rest fall into place. Give in to time, give in to life, give in to the outcome. Let your life unfold, stay curious and open to the opportunities that show up for you…  What happens may be better than you dreamed.

Just a thought…

LOVE, GOLDI

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]]> http://goldilocksblog.com/2011/01/changing-your-life-let-go-give-in/feed/ 0 Life Lessons From Improv http://goldilocksblog.com/2011/01/life-lessons-from-improv/ http://goldilocksblog.com/2011/01/life-lessons-from-improv/#comments Mon, 24 Jan 2011 21:16:12 +0000 Goldilocks http://goldilocksblog.com/?p=791 Have you ever watched “Improv”, where actors/comedians on stage are given a situation, and they have to make do with what’s at hand. They ad-lib the conversation, and use objects around them to invent or fabricate items which support what they are trying to create. We sit in awe at there ability to make the [...]]]> Have you ever watched “Improv”, where actors/comedians on stage are given a situation, and they have to make do with what’s at hand. They ad-lib the conversation, and use objects around them to invent or fabricate items which support what they are trying to create. We sit in awe at there ability to make the situation work, and usually say to ourselves something like, “I could never do that”.  When in reality, thats exactly what life is like.

Sometimes life events can stop us in our tracts, but like the Improv Entertainers, we need to look for what we have, and start our work there. We can continue to create our own story, always moving forward, improvising if we have to, toward the life that we want.

And, to keep us pumped up, at the end of each scene – Always Remember, to walk off the stage with a smile. :) Have Fun! Love your Life!

Just a thought…

Love, Goldi

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When times in our life our tough, it seems even harder to focus on anything positive, but if we don’t, times will remain tough.  Don’t try and block it out of your mind, but sit back and analyze it with detached feelings.  Ask yourself what can I learn from this.  What will I do differently next time.  Then let it go.  Tell yourself that the tough moment was just clearing a way for all the good thats coming to you. Start focusing on the positive, and if you do, great things will be just around the corner.

Just a thought…

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Our Hearts are full.  We love. We are kind. We are compassionate. We realize that our thoughts and actions are reciprocal, and maybe because of this, we realize that we are obligated by our shared interest in our individually perfect lives, that we inadvertently created our perfect world.  We have become better than we thought we could be.

Just a thought I hope to have in the near future… in honor of Dr. MLK

Love, Goldi

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]]> http://goldilocksblog.com/2011/01/one-love/feed/ 1 RELAX http://goldilocksblog.com/2011/01/relax/ http://goldilocksblog.com/2011/01/relax/#comments Fri, 14 Jan 2011 22:26:54 +0000 Goldilocks http://goldilocksblog.com/?p=777 “You are exactly where you are suppose to be.”  That’s what a wise woman said to me today.

Sometimes we get frustrated when we can’t accomplish what we want to accomplish, or do what it is that we want to do. We tend to get caught up in the curve balls that life throws us, when [...]]]> “You are exactly where you are suppose to be.”  That’s what a wise woman said to me today.

Sometimes we get frustrated when we can’t accomplish what we want to accomplish, or do what it is that we want to do. We tend to get caught up in the curve balls that life throws us, when what we need, is to just relax. To have faith everything will work out, the way its suppose to.   To remind ourselves of the lives that we want, and the goals we have set for ourselves.

Relax, and keep moving forward…

Just a thought…

Love, Goldi

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