If you have built castles in the air, your work need not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundations under them. Henry David Thoreau

Dare to Dream to have your perfect life – Nothing is really as hard as it looks.  It may however take more time than you thought, but that is okay.  Just know where you want to go, and keep taking steps (no matter how small) and eventually you will get there.

Just a thought…

Love, Goldi

Having the perfect life in a perfect world…

Today is my first anniversary of blogging. To commemorate the event, this morning, I created a fan page on facebook.  As of this writing I have no fans…lol!  Hopefully I will have more. In fact, please become a fan by clicking on the above logo…regardless, I am enjoying my journey.

I started blogging for myself, as a way to remind me of positive thoughts and things that I wanted to remember.  Positive and beautiful people and places that I want to see.   And, as time goes, my thoughts are changing a little on where I want to go, but my goals are still the same.  I still want to write, blog, travel, see the world, and help you along the way.

Hoping that we find our perfect lives in a perfect world…

Just a thought…

Love, Goldi

www.goldilocksblog.com

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In every attempt of love, and success at any endeavor, we learn.  We become closer to what it is that we want.  Always remind yourself that this attempt has brought you closer to your goal.  Weeding out what not to do.  Always consider your attempts a success for this very reason.  Never give up on your dream.  Readjust, reevaluate, leave yourself open, and try again.

Not trying, may feel like we are protecting ourselves, and by protecting ourselves we may feel like we have won that battle.  The truth is however, that we end up losing the war  - of never having a totally fulfilling life.

So remember – what may seem like a failure, is really a stepping stone, bringing you closer to your perfect life.

Just a thought…

Love, Goldi

www.GoldilocksBlog.com

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When I think the thoughts of what will make me happy; in a partner, in life, in a job, or in the simplest of things – such as – what do I want to eat, I always come back with – I want freedom to choose.  Freedom to choose to be, to do, to have or to want – anything.  Freedom to be myself.  Not the me that my mother wants me to be, or my father, my children, my neighbor, or my boss.

The more freedom, or at very least, perceived freedom that I have, the happier I perceive myself to be. I am not saying that I need to be totally hedonistic about my life.  I do a lot of self sacrificing for the benefit of others, but it is my freedom and choice to do it.   So in having a perfect life, job or mate, should the number one question be – How much freedom will I have?  Do I get to set my own hours?  Will my opinions or suggestions be heard and considered?  Will I be able to pursue my dream and be supported for it?  Do you have organic food?

Just a thought…

Love, Goldi

www.GoldilocksBlog.com

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I love you.

I think your great.

I believe in you.

I respect you.

I trust you.

Say these statements to your family; mother, father, sister, brother, husband, wife, sons and daughters. Say them to your friends, or anyone that you care about. But, most importantly – don’t forget – say them to yourself! It will make a difference!

Just a thought…

Love, Goldi

www.GoldilocksBlog.com

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“It has the hands to help others. It has the feet to hasten to the poor and needy.  It has eyes to see misery and want.  It has ears to hear the sighs and sorrows of men.  That is what love looks like.”

St Augustine

I think love has all the empathy that St Augustine suggest, but I believe love has the ability to also – see the good, the beauty, the joy, and the hope around us. True love helps others see it as well.

Just a thought…

Love, Goldi

www.GoldilocksBlog.com

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The love of life, and the life of love, eventually and sometimes painfully brings us wisdom.  The knowing that good times and bad times will happen, and we will be tested. Some as a direct result of our actions.  Some as a result of actions outside of our control. Wisdom knows if it is just the effects of the life cycle of good and bad times, or if it is our instincts telling us to change.  Look for the truth in the situation.  Then suck it up, and do your very best, either by changing, or by knowing that time – will bring the change we need.

Just a thought…

Love, Goldi

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“The supreme happiness in life is the conviction that we are loved; Loved for ourselves.”

Victor Hugo

Just a thought…

Love, Goldi

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Walk in love, and keep an open heart…

Happy Birthday Dad!

With Love, Goldi

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“The most powerful force on earth is love.” Nelson Rockefeller

Love rules all, and nothing comes closer to the powers of the heart.  It’s the secret that guides you in relationships, in careers, in friendships – in life.

Just a thought!

Love, Goldi

www.GoldilocksBlog.com

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